He won’t commit, but he also won’t leave you alone. And this analogy explains exactly why. When a man keeps coming back without ever giving you the relationship you asked for, it’s not love. It’s access. He doesn’t want to commit, but he doesn’t want to lose the comfort, validation, and loyalty you give him. It’s like walking into a store wanting a brown dress… and they keep bringing you black, navy, burgundy. Options, but never what you asked for. Some men do the same. They offer substitutes an

He got his visa. He was so excited. Packed his bags with hopes, dreams, and a new beginning. A 25-hour flight across the oceans to Australia… Only to pass away 10 days later. My brothers and sisters, we know the land we are born in, but we do not know the land we will die in. He came searching for a future, but his future was already written. The Angel of Death took his soul right here — in the exact place Allah had decreed for him long before he ever stepped on that plane. This is our reminder: